"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When you hit on a chick, do you wait for her

verysuave

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to respond to it and not take any further action until then even if takes days for her to show interest?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Obsidian

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too general a question, but I think the answer is usually no
 

Tha Realnezz

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If a chic says NO --flat out--to me ,even though I know she wants it,I never,ever look back no matter what.

Now if she's just playing hard to get like most girls do,that's different.

But if she's playing games to the point of acting like she doesn't see me,trying to get me jealous,always has excuses when I call her,then **** her I'll never even look at her again.
 

frisco

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flirt with her and just keep talking nonchalantly don't wait till she response right a way just wait to see how she acts around you in hindsight, after you flirt with her then if she likes it take a step back to pull her in wait till your comfortable and flirt with her some more make sure shes flirting with you as much as you to her AND ALWAYS REMEMBER that to much flirting becomes boring after a while so stop let her try an initiate the flirting but don't fall into it, just act like you have other priority's to deal with at the moment then when shes not expecting it raise her interest level with some flirting when your ready.
 
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