"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DonDan

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wants to stop?? like out of no where, she says to get off her.. and then she just has this look on her face likes shes sad, she lays their helpless... what does it mean? and how do u keep this from happening?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I tried asking her what was wrong, she replied nothing. just like all girls with SOMETHING on their mind but wont say...
 

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Tell her 'if nothing was wrong, we wouldn't have stopped having sex and you wouldn't have this look on your face like your dog just tied' People don't stop in the middle of sex for no reason.

Try to talk to her again, if she doesn't budge, say 'o.k., I'm not going to sit here and pull the truth out of you, when you are ready, we'll talk some more'.
 

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How old are you two? Was this the first time she had sex?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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how long is it since her last relationship?
My guess is that she is still emotionilly tied to her ex and she was maybe thinking about him at the time.

tho you will never know until she is honest with ya

Spiker
 

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I used to bang this chick who had been raped, and she used to do the same thing. It could be because she had been abused, molested, or raped at some point in her life, and either it came back into her head and that totally turned her off, or she needed to feel like she was in control of the situation by being able to stop it whenever she wanted. I know it's annoyin, but seriously is it really that bad if every once in a while you have to pause or stop during sex?
 

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Apparently every girl has been raped nowadays. :cool:

I don't think anyone really knows the meaning of rape now.

With that being said, it's impossible to rape the willing.

The real question is, do YOU want to keep having sex with her if she does this?

Or is this a major turnoff for you? :trouble:
 

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she has been molested... she lost her v to me... but... she hasnt done it in so long, but now after 2 weeks of bein seperateed she does it again, makes me worry like something happened.. i guess ill ask her about it again....................... anyones to thos who have experience with these types of women, whats the answer?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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