"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DonDan

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wants to stop?? like out of no where, she says to get off her.. and then she just has this look on her face likes shes sad, she lays their helpless... what does it mean? and how do u keep this from happening?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I tried asking her what was wrong, she replied nothing. just like all girls with SOMETHING on their mind but wont say...
 

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Tell her 'if nothing was wrong, we wouldn't have stopped having sex and you wouldn't have this look on your face like your dog just tied' People don't stop in the middle of sex for no reason.

Try to talk to her again, if she doesn't budge, say 'o.k., I'm not going to sit here and pull the truth out of you, when you are ready, we'll talk some more'.
 

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How old are you two? Was this the first time she had sex?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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how long is it since her last relationship?
My guess is that she is still emotionilly tied to her ex and she was maybe thinking about him at the time.

tho you will never know until she is honest with ya

Spiker
 

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I used to bang this chick who had been raped, and she used to do the same thing. It could be because she had been abused, molested, or raped at some point in her life, and either it came back into her head and that totally turned her off, or she needed to feel like she was in control of the situation by being able to stop it whenever she wanted. I know it's annoyin, but seriously is it really that bad if every once in a while you have to pause or stop during sex?
 

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Apparently every girl has been raped nowadays. :cool:

I don't think anyone really knows the meaning of rape now.

With that being said, it's impossible to rape the willing.

The real question is, do YOU want to keep having sex with her if she does this?

Or is this a major turnoff for you? :trouble:
 

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she has been molested... she lost her v to me... but... she hasnt done it in so long, but now after 2 weeks of bein seperateed she does it again, makes me worry like something happened.. i guess ill ask her about it again....................... anyones to thos who have experience with these types of women, whats the answer?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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