"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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to begin, has an HB ever called you perverted. If so how did you respond, or better yet how did you interpret this comment?......Were im getting at here, is that her calling you pereverted could mean many different things.

When we hear the word perverted we automatically begin to think or it as a negitive term. Well I've got news for you my friend, not all the time. For instence, I was in math class and a HB 7 began to ingadge into a converstation with me by saying:

HB: I heard what you said
Me: really
HB: yea he told me everything
Me: everything, huh
HB: yup I know what you were saying about me
Me: your.....wait, umm (I turned around and asked someone what her name was silently) Racheal rite
HB: omg you didnt know my name
Me: O I remeber now, yes me and Ben(her X) did have a conversation, and you might of come up, maybe
HB: yea he told me you said my face was ugly
Me: no no, I said you had an ugly face..(smerk)...{I look down to her legs, then look back up at her face)
HB: O and that you like my body, (she looks at my **** area)
Me: yea its 13
HB: huh
Me: but im booked for tonight, u wanna make an appointment, (I paused) it gonna have to be for next week
HB: your so Perverted
Me: I winked looked down at my **** and back to her, and said oo really
HB: she smiled, licked her top lip, the bell for class rang, and someone from the hall screamed E_ZE come on man!, I got up walked towards the door and winked at her, then left...

The way she used perverted in this situation, was to my benifit, because it let me know she was thinking the same thing that I was thinking.
So dont stereotype the word perverted, and when you can, use it to your advantage.

gl guys
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lol Ian and i was just feeling sympathic with the post u had about racism...becuase in a way the same thing is happened to me!, but nice post man, you just proved to me that you deserve the situation your in PIMP....hey try not being such a jackass, and then wow, maybe things might go better for ya bro.....you know what dont date black gurls, man....or should i say wigga, go listen to some eminem and get off my thread PIMPIN, thanks, and i wish u the best:D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by E_ze05
to begin, has an HB ever called you perverted. If so how did you respond, or better yet how did you interpret this comment?......Were im getting at here, is that her calling you pereverted could mean many different things.

When we hear the word perverted we automatically begin to think or it as a negitive term. Well I've got news for you my friend, not all the time. For instence, I was in math class and a HB 7 began to ingadge into a converstation with me by saying:

HB: I heard what you said
Me: really
HB: yea he told me everything
Me: everything, huh
HB: yup I know what you were saying about me
Me: your.....wait, umm (I turned around and asked someone what her name was silently) Racheal rite
HB: omg you didnt know my name
Me: O I remeber now, yes me and Ben(her X) did have a conversation, and you might of come up, maybe
HB: yea he told me you said my face was ugly
Me: no no, I said you had an ugly face..(smerk)...{I look down to her legs, then look back up at her face)
HB: O and that you like my body, (she looks at my **** area)
Me: yea its 13
HB: huh
Me: but im booked for tonight, u wanna make an appointment, (I paused) it gonna have to be for next week
HB: your so Perverted
Me: I winked looked down at my **** and back to her, and said oo really
HB: she smiled, licked her top lip, the bell for class rang, and someone from the hall screamed E_ZE come on man!, I got up walked towards the door and winked at her, then left...

The way she used perverted in this situation, was to my benifit, because it let me know she was thinking the same thing that I was thinking.
So dont stereotype the word perverted, and when you can, use it to your advantage.

gl guys
I don't know why all these chumps are bashing on you......oh yeah.......maybe because they're chumps.



:crackup: That was a REALLY nice FR. :crackup:


And to the other chumps who want to put him down because of this FR, you should think twice. Maybe that's why you aren't getting any....think about it
 

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Originally posted by blueangel83
I turn into Mega B*tch mode when a piece of sh*t is being perverted with me.
Why are you even here? GO read COSMOS and WATCH OPRAH, DON'T COME HERE AND RUIN OUR SITE. You girls have a TON of cosmos, oprah, girls conversation on the game in the bathroom. All we have is sosuave and now you want to ruin this. GET THE F*CK OFF MY SITE!
 

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hahahahaha...but really hes right!
 
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Originally posted by blueangel83
I turn into Mega B*tch mode when a piece of sh*t is being perverted with me.
Gay Guy Alert!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yea blue angle is a female man!
 

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:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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Bluelemond, this is not your site you piece of sh*t, I stopped reading girl magazines at 16 and I don't watch television except for the news.

Bluelemond you're 16? no wonder the POS is so immature. ::: presses permanent ignore button :::
 

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blue angel it must be that time of month..huh
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by blueangel83
Bluelemond, this is not your site you piece of sh*t, I stopped reading girl magazines at 16 and I don't watch television except for the news.

Bluelemond you're 16? no wonder the POS is so immature. ::: presses permanent ignore button :::
Sweetheart, we don't use that kind of language in this website ok? I don't know how all those other girl websites do it, but we don't bash eachother here....... k?
 

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Originally posted by bluelemond
Or maybe she's just a female that comes here and gives crap adive.
Dude shhh i'm "neg hitting" her. ;)
 

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Originally posted by blueangel83
Bluelemond, this is not your site you piece of sh*t, I stopped reading girl magazines at 16 and I don't watch television except for the news.

Bluelemond you're 16? no wonder the POS is so immature. ::: presses permanent ignore button :::
Insecurity is usually the root of anger.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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