It seems like I have a harder time when I meet someone, if sexual tension is immediately through the roof, though it's impossible to control emotions like that. I might get a lot of attention and see a change in the other person as soon as I enter the room, but the uncertainty can lead to annoyance, excessive shyness, jealousy and anger: all signs of the each other's effect each other. On the other hand, if there's a little sexual tension, it creates warmth rather than discomfort and frustration, and it's easier to build comfort and flirting and smalltalk is more natural. When you are in the situation, of overwhelming sexual tension, where you see you're having an effect on the other person, how do you build comfort and avoid the negative effects like shyness, hostility and aggression?
It's hard to build comfort let alone think straight when you're mind is bombarded by the feelings of confusion, excitement, stress that goes along with extreme sexual tension. That and it often makes women act really nervous and shy: some females I've talked to will avoid the guy like the plague because they're so nervous and stressed around them. Oh, and how do you handle it if a female expresses the frustration with anger/hostility?
It's hard to build comfort let alone think straight when you're mind is bombarded by the feelings of confusion, excitement, stress that goes along with extreme sexual tension. That and it often makes women act really nervous and shy: some females I've talked to will avoid the guy like the plague because they're so nervous and stressed around them. Oh, and how do you handle it if a female expresses the frustration with anger/hostility?