When you feel yourself losing power... Pull back

[Bigdavis]

It works every time. Any time you feel like she's starting to try to get you whipped or that you're losing power in the relationship just stop calling her. Make yourself do something else. Hang out with friends, find something to do, give you phone to your friend and tell him not to let you call her.

It will take her about 36 hours to notice you stopped calling and she'll drive herself crazy wondering why you haven't called.

In no time she'll be blowing your phone up (actually she'll usually send a text because a lot of girls have this thing about calling guys) but she will make contact and instantly you will have all the power back! It's like magic.

I know this has been said before on here but I just wanted to stress how important it is to pull away at the slightest hint of her thinking she's got you.

 

[PrinceBeavis]

Wisdom.

 

[Axcell]

Tried it, but honestly, it depends on the girl. It isn't exactly full-proof. I know an ex-girlfriend who, once I pulled away, lost contact with me as well and started chasing other guys. It only works if you have a very big attraction from the beginning. In short, make sure that from the very start she is absolutely attracted to everything about you, because if she isn't, this will NOT work for you.

 

[yogy]

Tried it, but honestly, it depends on the girl. It isn't exactly full-proof. I know an ex-girlfriend who, once I pulled away, lost contact with me as well and started chasing other guys. It only works if you have a very big attraction from the beginning. In short, make sure that from the very start she is absolutely attracted to everything about you, because if she isn't, this will NOT work for you.

Very true (from my own experience :trouble: ).

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Tried it, but honestly, it depends on the girl. It isn't exactly full-proof. I know an ex-girlfriend who, once I pulled away, lost contact with me as well and started chasing other guys. It only works if you have a very big attraction from the beginning. In short, make sure that from the very start she is absolutely attracted to everything about you, because if she isn't, this will NOT work for you.

More specifically, it has more of a chance of working if you started out calling her all of the time, doing more things for her than you were doing for yourself or if you had stopped spending time with your friends. In a nutshell, if you keep everything in balance the chance of you needing to step back greatly diminishes. If you don't lose control, there will be no need to regain control.