When you feel in love.

[Starriol]

So, I'm going out with this girl and I'm discovering I like her a lot.
Don't worry, I do feel like in love but I'm not acting AFC, not even one bit.

But, I'm fearfull of falling in love, I fear I might act AFC and scare her away (again, so far so good, still making fun of her, not taking crap, etc).

I don't know what to do... like, I feel now that falling in love is somehow WRONG and should be negated... But I also think that's pretty stupid, I enjoy how I feel about her....
The questions, the doubts...

What do you guys think? Is it wrong to FEEL it if you don't act afc or not..?

 

[frivolousz21]

T-minus 30 seconds before Frivey-poo posts in this thread.

when u muster the courage to ask me out..i may say maybe :crackup:






to the poster....do exactly wat u have been.. dont stop it.

dont become needy, or clingy.


make sure u express urself to her...but she knows ur a man still

 

[backbreaker]

:crackup:


Sosuave.com sulates...

Guy who falls in love to quickly


(Background guy: Guy who falls in love to quickly)


You go from one girl to the next, wearing your heart on your sholder, but what you don't know, is that while your thinking of new ways to pay tribute to your newfound love, your Girlfriend is starring somewhre in the nextCollege **** Fest Video

(Background Guy: Taking it in the ***)


To her you sound as depressing as a Carl Thomas Album, when all in relaity all girls, want to just have fun.


(Background Guy: Leeeeaaave me alone)



One day after all the rejections, you will someday learn that the common demonator between all of the bad women and you, is you....


(Background guy: I belieeeeeve I can change)

Because she lied to you when she said she was going to a party last night... she was the party last night"

So AFC that falls in love to q uickly, we salute you...




lol, in all seriousness dude... love isn't tangable...

You can't prevent yourself from being in love...

ON that note, If you have to ask yourself if you are in love, you aren't..

Of course, this is coming from someone who knows he hasn't been in love with anyone.

 

[frivolousz21]

ON that note, If you have to ask yourself if you are in love, you aren't..

Of course, this is coming from someone who knows he hasn't been in love with anyone.






Yes, but you are 100 percent right.

 

[NSUballer]

Well these guys give good advice but I had this happen to me before and the consequences are not good. When you start to be all mushy in love with her she will either get less attracted to you(if she doesent feel the same as you) OR she will feel the same and you will both be happy. But love does not happen over night. Of course your gonna feel all good in the beginning but over time that may change. The biggest test for love is TIME.

 

[Da Realist]

What does it matter? Be the same guy you were when you met her and she'll stay.

 

[Big Eee Zee]

go with it. if you truly love her then let her know. there is nothing better than being in love (assuming she loves you back)

 

[thederekeffect1]

I completely understand where you're coming from. Personally, I fear the four letter word.

(enter cheap waynes world type flashback)

It all started when she said the words. "Derek, I..." (pause) "I love you". Without even thinking, I replied: "I love you". So, now we're in love. Which means, this isn't a game anymore, right? So, what's my next move? All the advice I've ever recieved on the subject said that when you're in love you can be whoever you are and not worry about what your partner thinks because you know they love you. I could say whatever I feel, do whatever I want, even show her my sensative side... Right?

Then she started ****ing my best friend.

(exit flashback with the sound of a crash)

So, I promised myself that I would never fall in love again. Months later a girl came along, and I started getting those feelings again. So, I pushed her away. And ever sense, I've been pushing women away the minute I start getting feelings for them.

In other words, I'm the wrong person to be giving advice on love and I'll quit now.