"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When you Confess (or talk to a girl how you feel) and she says she....

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Maxtro said:
Hold on there buddy.

How have you shown her that you wanted to be in a relationship with her? Based on what I understand, you've seen her in class almost every day and you've spent time with her outside of class once or twice.

Where any of those times a date? Did you try to kiss, hold hands or even hug her? Any physical contact?


I'm sorry to say this, but she doesn't care how much time and feelings you have invested into her. You can't convince somebody to like you.

Yes it is. But do you think you were dating her?

Yes, holding a girls had is a good way to test if she likes you. If you think the time is right, just grab her hand. If she says something bad or takes her hand away it shows that she isn't interested. If she doesn't reject your hand, then give her a little squeeze, if she reciprocates then it's a good sign. Don't forget to let go.

Your next goal is to try and kiss her. Look around for the kiss test.

Why do you even care about your anniversary? Thats definitely a chick thing. If you do want to have an anniversary then have it start when you two have sex. Until you've had sex, you aren't even really dating. Your just two friends spending time together.
Can you please link the kiss test to me? but im pretty sure that would be used after i can hold her hand lol.

So you would wait a bit then release your hand after she squeezes? You gave some pretty good advice and im glad you gave your input! =)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Law 3: Conceal Your Intentions
Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. If they have no clue what you are up to, they cannot prepare a defense. Guide them far enough down the wrong path, envelop them in enough smoke, and by the time they realize your intentions, it will be too late.

Law 4: Always Say Less than Necessary
When you are trying to impress people with words, the more you say, the more common you appear, and the less in control. Even if you are saying something banal, it will seem original if you make it vague, open- ended, and sphinxlike. Powerful people impress and intimidate by saying less. The more you say, the more likely you are to say something foolish.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i.e. Know when to keep your mouth shut.
 
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