"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When you Confess (or talk to a girl how you feel) and she says she....

Happy_Camper

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Maxtro said:
Hold on there buddy.

How have you shown her that you wanted to be in a relationship with her? Based on what I understand, you've seen her in class almost every day and you've spent time with her outside of class once or twice.

Where any of those times a date? Did you try to kiss, hold hands or even hug her? Any physical contact?


I'm sorry to say this, but she doesn't care how much time and feelings you have invested into her. You can't convince somebody to like you.

Yes it is. But do you think you were dating her?

Yes, holding a girls had is a good way to test if she likes you. If you think the time is right, just grab her hand. If she says something bad or takes her hand away it shows that she isn't interested. If she doesn't reject your hand, then give her a little squeeze, if she reciprocates then it's a good sign. Don't forget to let go.

Your next goal is to try and kiss her. Look around for the kiss test.

Why do you even care about your anniversary? Thats definitely a chick thing. If you do want to have an anniversary then have it start when you two have sex. Until you've had sex, you aren't even really dating. Your just two friends spending time together.
Can you please link the kiss test to me? but im pretty sure that would be used after i can hold her hand lol.

So you would wait a bit then release your hand after she squeezes? You gave some pretty good advice and im glad you gave your input! =)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Law 3: Conceal Your Intentions
Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. If they have no clue what you are up to, they cannot prepare a defense. Guide them far enough down the wrong path, envelop them in enough smoke, and by the time they realize your intentions, it will be too late.

Law 4: Always Say Less than Necessary
When you are trying to impress people with words, the more you say, the more common you appear, and the less in control. Even if you are saying something banal, it will seem original if you make it vague, open- ended, and sphinxlike. Powerful people impress and intimidate by saying less. The more you say, the more likely you are to say something foolish.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i.e. Know when to keep your mouth shut.
 
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