mahon83050
Banned
I asked a chick out for this Thursday...she did not say yes, but to call me on that day. I think this sounds like low IL and she does not want to make an excuse in advance.
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When you ask a chick out for Thurs and she says call on that day
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Ded_Skin_Mask13
Banned
well, I would still call but without expecting a yes or no.
Not a good sign. If her IL was high she would either accept or counteroffer for another day. Or, she could be waiting for something better to come along for that day before commiting to going out with you. Either way, you are probably correct in writing her off as low IL.
If I were you, I would avoid calling to confirm on Thursday. If she has your number, I am sure that she would call you if she was at all interested either to accept your offer or reschedule for another day. If not, then wait till Sunday to call her again to see if she is up to something for next week. If she gives you the same call to confirm crap or seems hesitant then Next.
If I were you, I would avoid calling to confirm on Thursday. If she has your number, I am sure that she would call you if she was at all interested either to accept your offer or reschedule for another day. If not, then wait till Sunday to call her again to see if she is up to something for next week. If she gives you the same call to confirm crap or seems hesitant then Next.
mahon83050
Banned
Well your advice sounds good, but she is leaving for college out of state in like 2-3 weeks. Iam just trying to get a piece of ***** here.
Well in that case, if she is leaving to college and you probably never will see her again, I would just be bold and direct. Call her tonite and ask her if she wants to fyck. Chances of this working are about 5%, but what the hell.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
It does not sound good, I would not waste the effort. Think about it, by telling you to wait until Thursday, she is basically telling you to put your life on hold and if she can not find anything better to do, she will see you. Why waste time on that?
MisterAl
Don Juan
Right, I agree with others here. If she doesn't get something else lined up for Thursday, you'll do. I hate that rude crap, like I'm going to keep my evening open for her whims.
I would blow her off and see if she calls on Weds or Thurs. It actually worked for me once. If she doesn't call, forget her. You don't need her kind of trouble.
I would blow her off and see if she calls on Weds or Thurs. It actually worked for me once. If she doesn't call, forget her. You don't need her kind of trouble.
mahon83050
Banned
Thanks fellas, So I guess I should not call her on Thursday and maybe try her on Saturday or something. BTW, she does have my number as well.
MoAF
Don Juan
Her IL isn't that high now... but why puss out... you are a MAN, aren't you? The thing is, not all women will have High IL in the begining, but if they are free they will be willing to spend time with you. I say call her, set up a fun date, and raise her IL with a confident charismatic attitude and a fun kino-filled evening, and by the end of the night you might get that piece of ass after all. I mean, really, what better do you have to do on a thursday, anyways?
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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First of all I wouldn't have let her off the phone the first time until I got a "Yes" for the date..however...don't call her on Thursday...instead call her next Tuesday and if she says "how come you didn't call.." just say, "oh I got busy and our plans weren't concrete...Then close her for the next date!
Good luck
Good luck
mahon83050
Banned
Well, my friends brought up a good point. As I mentioned before, the girl is leaving for college in a few weeks. Her school is in Colorado and I am in Jersey. Her interest level can in fact be high, but why get attached to someone while you would just be hurt when they soon leave. She may be avoiding me to avoid getting hurt. I mean, the date went well it seems. So, it could be my theory or it could be in fact low IL.
Walden
Master Don Juan
My standard move would be to call her on friday and apologise saying I forgot . Then ask her out for lunch or something that weekend.