"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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When you aren't quite sure if they're girlfriend material

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So I know this girl from my dorm, she's kindof an interesting person, but only so-so looking, maybe a 6.5-7. She's pretty shy, but I assume she's very interested in me. The question is whether I'm at all interested in her. I'm just getting over a LTR I ended myself, and I'm thinking I could probably use another girl to get my mind off the last one. Plus it's still Christmas break for me, and I'm getting bored.
So I called her just now and told her to come hang out with me on Tuesday, we're going to hit a concert downtown i guess.

-I don't want her to think she's in like Flynn if she isn't, just because I don't like to see people getting hurt when I decide I'm not interested.
-I would like to be friends with her even if I decide not to pursue sex or whatever.

What can I do to make sure I achieve the above goals? I'm planning on deciding soon whether I want to get more involved with her or not, but right now I don't know.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I always put them in the friendzone myself. By doing this I will look at other girls and say a few times during convo.


Come on girl you can't help a friend out. Or we're suppose to be friends how our you going to play me like that.

If I want to take it to sex I will then start using kino and start flipping my style.

But it's up to you on who has control in the friendship or relationship.
 
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Originally posted by Christopher Tracy
I always put them in the friendzone myself. By doing this I will look at other girls and say a few times during convo.


Come on girl you can't help a friend out. Or we're suppose to be friends how our you going to play me like that.

If I want to take it to sex I will then start using kino and start flipping my style.

But it's up to you on who has control in the friendship or relationship.
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pimpin...

and you have both of the first names of my two youngest sons.

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