Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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When you aren't quite sure if they're girlfriend material

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So I know this girl from my dorm, she's kindof an interesting person, but only so-so looking, maybe a 6.5-7. She's pretty shy, but I assume she's very interested in me. The question is whether I'm at all interested in her. I'm just getting over a LTR I ended myself, and I'm thinking I could probably use another girl to get my mind off the last one. Plus it's still Christmas break for me, and I'm getting bored.
So I called her just now and told her to come hang out with me on Tuesday, we're going to hit a concert downtown i guess.

-I don't want her to think she's in like Flynn if she isn't, just because I don't like to see people getting hurt when I decide I'm not interested.
-I would like to be friends with her even if I decide not to pursue sex or whatever.

What can I do to make sure I achieve the above goals? I'm planning on deciding soon whether I want to get more involved with her or not, but right now I don't know.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I always put them in the friendzone myself. By doing this I will look at other girls and say a few times during convo.


Come on girl you can't help a friend out. Or we're suppose to be friends how our you going to play me like that.

If I want to take it to sex I will then start using kino and start flipping my style.

But it's up to you on who has control in the friendship or relationship.
 
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Originally posted by Christopher Tracy
I always put them in the friendzone myself. By doing this I will look at other girls and say a few times during convo.


Come on girl you can't help a friend out. Or we're suppose to be friends how our you going to play me like that.

If I want to take it to sex I will then start using kino and start flipping my style.

But it's up to you on who has control in the friendship or relationship.
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pimpin...

and you have both of the first names of my two youngest sons.

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