"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mtlwlu

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Hey guys Im in a bit of a jam here, I made out with a girl at a party and we went on a few dates nothing major just mini golf and a walk along the river. Anyways I made it clear to her that Im not looking for a relationship etc.. etc... now shes always sending me texts saying "I want to do whatever i can to please you" ..."I dont mean anything to you do i?" its really annoying especially when she sends me texts when i was at a kegger for a friend who just returned from austrailia. I wake up in the morning and i can expect at least 3 texts from her. Thank god Im moving back to school in a few weeks.


Anyone ever had a girl obsessed with you?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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female's AFC-ness is a common thing, especially among HOT females for some reason.
I would not use that girl for sex, because she would really be hurt eventually.

However, if she has rich parents and is stupid then why not ;)
 
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I was on the phone with Tom Leykis talking about this recently. Click http://www.extremebumming.com/Leykis-2008-08-04_Hr1-ShesInLoveAfterOneDate.mp3 to listen to it.

Basically what he told me is that some girls are like the playwrite, and they are searching for someone to fill a roll, you've auditioned, and got the part. In my opinion it's a self-esteem boost for us but doesn't necessarily guarantee a relationship in which this girl will love you forever. Girls like this DO get sick of guys.

Some of the hottest girls have the lowest self-esteem. They get most female drama/pressure from friends and have a hard time being hit on because many men categorize them as "out of my league" and are flirted with less then not-as-hot chicks. There's nothing wrong with just banging this girl, but make it clear that there will be no relationship. Of course, she will be under the impression that she will change your mind, because she has the magic vagina that will make you want a relationship with her. But if you really don't want a relationship, don't feel pressured to be in one. Just enjoy it for what it is.
 
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I'm not even gonna listen to the sound byte again cause I'm pretty sure I listened to that convo a week or two ago. That's cool somebody actually got through. I remember him talking about girls who believe the guy is everything they need even though they don't know him that well. I think he said you can tell them you're not interested in anything long-term and they'll agree with the hopes of eventually making you theirs. But yea those kind of girls usually end up shanking you in your sleep so I'd keep your distance haha.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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are you attracted to this girl? it would seem so since you took her out on dates. Well, if you haven't hit it yet, here is your perfect opportunity to make your wildest dreams come true in bed. Why would you not want that? Especially since you re about to move back to school (where she can't easily follow you?) it seems like the perfect move.

pvssy is scarce, get as much of it as you can
 
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