"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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When YOU are the target of oneitis

mtlwlu

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Hey guys Im in a bit of a jam here, I made out with a girl at a party and we went on a few dates nothing major just mini golf and a walk along the river. Anyways I made it clear to her that Im not looking for a relationship etc.. etc... now shes always sending me texts saying "I want to do whatever i can to please you" ..."I dont mean anything to you do i?" its really annoying especially when she sends me texts when i was at a kegger for a friend who just returned from austrailia. I wake up in the morning and i can expect at least 3 texts from her. Thank god Im moving back to school in a few weeks.


Anyone ever had a girl obsessed with you?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Acq

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female's AFC-ness is a common thing, especially among HOT females for some reason.
I would not use that girl for sex, because she would really be hurt eventually.

However, if she has rich parents and is stupid then why not ;)
 

guywhoneedshelp

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I was on the phone with Tom Leykis talking about this recently. Click http://www.extremebumming.com/Leykis-2008-08-04_Hr1-ShesInLoveAfterOneDate.mp3 to listen to it.

Basically what he told me is that some girls are like the playwrite, and they are searching for someone to fill a roll, you've auditioned, and got the part. In my opinion it's a self-esteem boost for us but doesn't necessarily guarantee a relationship in which this girl will love you forever. Girls like this DO get sick of guys.

Some of the hottest girls have the lowest self-esteem. They get most female drama/pressure from friends and have a hard time being hit on because many men categorize them as "out of my league" and are flirted with less then not-as-hot chicks. There's nothing wrong with just banging this girl, but make it clear that there will be no relationship. Of course, she will be under the impression that she will change your mind, because she has the magic vagina that will make you want a relationship with her. But if you really don't want a relationship, don't feel pressured to be in one. Just enjoy it for what it is.
 

IsiMan84

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I'm not even gonna listen to the sound byte again cause I'm pretty sure I listened to that convo a week or two ago. That's cool somebody actually got through. I remember him talking about girls who believe the guy is everything they need even though they don't know him that well. I think he said you can tell them you're not interested in anything long-term and they'll agree with the hopes of eventually making you theirs. But yea those kind of girls usually end up shanking you in your sleep so I'd keep your distance haha.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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drak_ool

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are you attracted to this girl? it would seem so since you took her out on dates. Well, if you haven't hit it yet, here is your perfect opportunity to make your wildest dreams come true in bed. Why would you not want that? Especially since you re about to move back to school (where she can't easily follow you?) it seems like the perfect move.

pvssy is scarce, get as much of it as you can
 
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