... When you are in doubt.

[European-DJ]

Hi people.

Another question from the European.

If you are seriously in doubt, regarding whether or not your girls is doing as she says, is it okay to look in her phone?

I am much in doubt, usually I would say hell no, and a thought like this would never occur. But my gut is (almost) NEVER wrong, when I have this feeling about something, whatever it is, 9 out of 10 times it is true/happens.

So before I do anything, what do YOU think about looking into your girls phone?

Regards, and thanks in advance.

 

[SeymourCake]

You display insecurity if you're looking through her phone.

Respect her privacy.

 

[European-DJ]

She wouldn't know that I looked, so I wouldn't loose face.


So you think it is better living in blindness? Isn't it better to sort out the rotten fruit instantaneously, instead of waiting 'till it hits you in the face?

 

[blind_one]

I've seen a simmilar situation unfold on these boards, and honestly if you suspect her that much, she's not worth it.

 

[Purefilth]

doubt=lack of trust=lack of respect=sh1tty relationship

 

[Renegade357]

If you're confused about the relationship it's probably over. Good women don't confuse and mix up their men.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

I wouldn't look through my girls phone. If I do that then they would think it is right to look through my phone. That will just open up a can of worms. Just stick with your intuition though. It will usually lead you the right way.

 

[Zerro]

If you're confused about the relationship it's probably over. Good women don't confuse and mix up their men.

Exactly. If you're distrusting her and thinking about spying on her then you might as well just end it because it's all downhill from there.