"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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when ya depressed, just smile

azn_alex

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i was reading on an article, its probably common sense to ya'll but

http://www.futurehealth.org/SmileAnatomy.htm

its a long article, but to sum it up: when ya small ya body associates emotions with facial expressions. when u smile, your body becomes happier.

ppl always used to tell me to smile wen i was down, i'd tell em to **** off coz it was being fake, but it actually has scientific reasons for working

so when you're :( just :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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oOh Nasty

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interesting.

the mind and the body are very complementary to eachother.

it works.

~ j
 

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it goes beyond just smiling; allround good posture does you wonders (straight arched back, shoulders back, chin up, slow + calm walking pace etc)

a chemical change in your body can also affect your mood; e.g. the production of endorphins from exercise
 

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i just realised this is already mentioned in a number of articles such as the art of attraction, so its old news. sorry bout that
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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No offence dude, but it aint workin for me. I'm having a ****ty day, so I tried smiling.

I still feel like sh*t.

:rolleyes:
 

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I'm about to be put out of school (not my doing), employment situation is all phucked up, parents could go to jail for tax evasion. Am I sad, (I dunno), am I depressed (haven't got a freaking clue.) I just been sitting at my desk laughing my ass off for the past 2 weeks for no apparent reason.:confused:
 

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Originally posted by Triple X
No offence dude, but it aint workin for me. I'm having a ****ty day, so I tried smiling.

I still feel like sh*t.

:rolleyes:
I don't think it works in just 1 day....the whole point of his smiling technique is to train the muscles in the face to give off a natural smiling toned face even when you are rested.....just like going to the gym and doing abs, you gotta do it on a regualr basis to build a studly grin

Gav- I disagree....one of the things they tell models when they first get in front of the camera is to concentrate on your face and the body will follow it's lead.....by learning to control a smile (the hardest facial expression to master) all other expressions become effortless from confident to determined gestures.
 
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