"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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when ya depressed, just smile

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i was reading on an article, its probably common sense to ya'll but

http://www.futurehealth.org/SmileAnatomy.htm

its a long article, but to sum it up: when ya small ya body associates emotions with facial expressions. when u smile, your body becomes happier.

ppl always used to tell me to smile wen i was down, i'd tell em to **** off coz it was being fake, but it actually has scientific reasons for working

so when you're :( just :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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interesting.

the mind and the body are very complementary to eachother.

it works.

~ j
 

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it goes beyond just smiling; allround good posture does you wonders (straight arched back, shoulders back, chin up, slow + calm walking pace etc)

a chemical change in your body can also affect your mood; e.g. the production of endorphins from exercise
 

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i just realised this is already mentioned in a number of articles such as the art of attraction, so its old news. sorry bout that
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No offence dude, but it aint workin for me. I'm having a ****ty day, so I tried smiling.

I still feel like sh*t.

:rolleyes:
 

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I'm about to be put out of school (not my doing), employment situation is all phucked up, parents could go to jail for tax evasion. Am I sad, (I dunno), am I depressed (haven't got a freaking clue.) I just been sitting at my desk laughing my ass off for the past 2 weeks for no apparent reason.:confused:
 

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Originally posted by Triple X
No offence dude, but it aint workin for me. I'm having a ****ty day, so I tried smiling.

I still feel like sh*t.

:rolleyes:
I don't think it works in just 1 day....the whole point of his smiling technique is to train the muscles in the face to give off a natural smiling toned face even when you are rested.....just like going to the gym and doing abs, you gotta do it on a regualr basis to build a studly grin

Gav- I disagree....one of the things they tell models when they first get in front of the camera is to concentrate on your face and the body will follow it's lead.....by learning to control a smile (the hardest facial expression to master) all other expressions become effortless from confident to determined gestures.
 
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