"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When women want to get married, do they leave hints?

MatureDJ

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A friend of mine relayed the story of his latest g/f (he early 50's, she late 40's, childless, divorced.) She had a cute face (especially at her age), but a little dumpy, and he said that he generally enjoyed being with when he could concentrate on her face, but admitted to not having a strong ejaculation with her (even without a rubber) as the sight of her body was a bit disconcerting.

Anyway, they were watching some cable TV show about folks house hunting, when she just interjected about "when we go house hunting ..." :crackup: He heard it, but pretended that he didn't. Anyway, after that, with him showing no effect from that comment, her legs closed and her attitude got worse, and he figured that she just didn't get him hard enough to put up with any BS, and moved on. :woo:

I think once or twice, I got some kind of similar hint (although my hints were given to me while cuddling after sex.) :woo: (In both cases, I came to the conclusion that they were unstable, and of course, it ended up blowing up, although I was decently attracted to both and sure liked dumping my sp3rm into them.) Do you think this is standard operating procedure for women?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yes, women leave subtle hints. And yes I love dumping sperm in them or on their assorted chests
 

Aristippus

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Female communication is one big hint. That's the way they communicate 90% of the time. They communicate very indirectly a lot of the time. Instead of asking you if the two of you can live together, she will either start leaving an item here and there at your place "accidentally" or she will imply things. A friend of mine, his girlfriend used to say things like "It's too far for me to drive from where I live to work. It would be nice if I lived in your town." Or "If we lived together it would save me money.", etc etc.

Also be on the lookout for her talking about something someone else did. Or saying what "other men" should do. "A man should.......". Or "So and so's boyfriend didn't do X,Y, and Z.". You are a man. If she says "A man should do this or that" what she's really saying is "A man should do this. You're a man. So you should do it too." Notice if there's a recurring theme in her little stories. It's her way of trying to imply something or guilt you into doing something or to try to manipulate you into making a decision without directly asking you.

It's so easy to spot and is obvious. Unfortunately, for so many men, it seems like it goes completely under their radar.
 

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Dear MDJ,
All Women want marriage...Subtle?nice to see you haven't lost your sense of humour....It's a signal to the rest of the Girls,look at me I've netted a big one!
 
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