"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When women want to get married, do they leave hints?

MatureDJ

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A friend of mine relayed the story of his latest g/f (he early 50's, she late 40's, childless, divorced.) She had a cute face (especially at her age), but a little dumpy, and he said that he generally enjoyed being with when he could concentrate on her face, but admitted to not having a strong ejaculation with her (even without a rubber) as the sight of her body was a bit disconcerting.

Anyway, they were watching some cable TV show about folks house hunting, when she just interjected about "when we go house hunting ..." :crackup: He heard it, but pretended that he didn't. Anyway, after that, with him showing no effect from that comment, her legs closed and her attitude got worse, and he figured that she just didn't get him hard enough to put up with any BS, and moved on. :woo:

I think once or twice, I got some kind of similar hint (although my hints were given to me while cuddling after sex.) :woo: (In both cases, I came to the conclusion that they were unstable, and of course, it ended up blowing up, although I was decently attracted to both and sure liked dumping my sp3rm into them.) Do you think this is standard operating procedure for women?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yes, women leave subtle hints. And yes I love dumping sperm in them or on their assorted chests
 

Aristippus

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Female communication is one big hint. That's the way they communicate 90% of the time. They communicate very indirectly a lot of the time. Instead of asking you if the two of you can live together, she will either start leaving an item here and there at your place "accidentally" or she will imply things. A friend of mine, his girlfriend used to say things like "It's too far for me to drive from where I live to work. It would be nice if I lived in your town." Or "If we lived together it would save me money.", etc etc.

Also be on the lookout for her talking about something someone else did. Or saying what "other men" should do. "A man should.......". Or "So and so's boyfriend didn't do X,Y, and Z.". You are a man. If she says "A man should do this or that" what she's really saying is "A man should do this. You're a man. So you should do it too." Notice if there's a recurring theme in her little stories. It's her way of trying to imply something or guilt you into doing something or to try to manipulate you into making a decision without directly asking you.

It's so easy to spot and is obvious. Unfortunately, for so many men, it seems like it goes completely under their radar.
 

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Dear MDJ,
All Women want marriage...Subtle?nice to see you haven't lost your sense of humour....It's a signal to the rest of the Girls,look at me I've netted a big one!
 
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