"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When women share things with you. What does it mean?

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I had a few women share their lunches with me. At work and in college and wonder if it means anything.

A HB i'm interested in likes to share her water bottle with me when I run out on a hot day and since her family owns a restaurant, brings back food from the restaurant for me to eat!

My gut feeling is that women who are comfortable with you would share food with you but is it in a LJBF or "I wanna fukk your brains out by bribing you with my sandwich" way?

Nick
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When women share things with you, it means.......

....absolutely nothing.


There is no way to sugarcoat this advice. If you like a girl then you must take the initiative. Ditch the passive psychoanalytical bullsh!t and make your move. Get sexual. Go for the kiss.

She'll either respond favorably or she won't.

Either way, you need to be man enough to embrace any rejection or embarrassment with class and dignity, if or when it occurs.
 

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Hey Survivor, I couldn't help but notice your signature. Has that changed for you at all?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by vdk
I had a few women share their lunches with me. At work and in college and wonder if it means anything.

A HB i'm interested in likes to share her water bottle with me when I run out on a hot day and since her family owns a restaurant, brings back food from the restaurant for me to eat!

My gut feeling is that women who are comfortable with you would share food with you but is it in a LJBF or "I wanna fukk your brains out by bribing you with my sandwich" way?

Nick
Is there kino?
 

Survivor

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Originally posted by Porky
Hey Survivor, I couldn't help but notice your signature. Has that changed for you at all?
Of course I'm more confident now than I was when I made that statement.

Back then I was a newcommer to the forum and was just beginning to learn self-respect. Years later I was checking the archives one day and decided to use it as my sig. It reminds me that even though I've improved with females since then, the core of my true purpose remains the same, which is to be a self-made, self-reliant man regardless of how others view me.
 

ScrewIt

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it means nothing

i had this attention ***** last semester offer me her lunch occasionally that she brought to school.

but each time i rejected her offer. It Makes these bi*ches feel good about themselves cause they see it makes you happy to be chowin down their poison.

Never accept any offers from these *****s, it will only feed their ego. plus itm akes you seem AFC cause you cant say "no" to them
 

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Are you serious lol?!

I take this differently.

Say, im hungry, so after a class i am chatting with a girl.. and i go "hey, lets go to a coffe shop, you can buy me lunch"... shiet, i got a couple of nice convos and lunches out of this...oh yeah and i slept with one of these girls too.

never turn down a meal when you are hungry!
 
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