"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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When women share things with you. What does it mean?

vdk

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I had a few women share their lunches with me. At work and in college and wonder if it means anything.

A HB i'm interested in likes to share her water bottle with me when I run out on a hot day and since her family owns a restaurant, brings back food from the restaurant for me to eat!

My gut feeling is that women who are comfortable with you would share food with you but is it in a LJBF or "I wanna fukk your brains out by bribing you with my sandwich" way?

Nick
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Survivor

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When women share things with you, it means.......

....absolutely nothing.


There is no way to sugarcoat this advice. If you like a girl then you must take the initiative. Ditch the passive psychoanalytical bullsh!t and make your move. Get sexual. Go for the kiss.

She'll either respond favorably or she won't.

Either way, you need to be man enough to embrace any rejection or embarrassment with class and dignity, if or when it occurs.
 

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Hey Survivor, I couldn't help but notice your signature. Has that changed for you at all?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by vdk
I had a few women share their lunches with me. At work and in college and wonder if it means anything.

A HB i'm interested in likes to share her water bottle with me when I run out on a hot day and since her family owns a restaurant, brings back food from the restaurant for me to eat!

My gut feeling is that women who are comfortable with you would share food with you but is it in a LJBF or "I wanna fukk your brains out by bribing you with my sandwich" way?

Nick
Is there kino?
 

Survivor

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Originally posted by Porky
Hey Survivor, I couldn't help but notice your signature. Has that changed for you at all?
Of course I'm more confident now than I was when I made that statement.

Back then I was a newcommer to the forum and was just beginning to learn self-respect. Years later I was checking the archives one day and decided to use it as my sig. It reminds me that even though I've improved with females since then, the core of my true purpose remains the same, which is to be a self-made, self-reliant man regardless of how others view me.
 

ScrewIt

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it means nothing

i had this attention ***** last semester offer me her lunch occasionally that she brought to school.

but each time i rejected her offer. It Makes these bi*ches feel good about themselves cause they see it makes you happy to be chowin down their poison.

Never accept any offers from these *****s, it will only feed their ego. plus itm akes you seem AFC cause you cant say "no" to them
 

Oxide

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Are you serious lol?!

I take this differently.

Say, im hungry, so after a class i am chatting with a girl.. and i go "hey, lets go to a coffe shop, you can buy me lunch"... shiet, i got a couple of nice convos and lunches out of this...oh yeah and i slept with one of these girls too.

never turn down a meal when you are hungry!
 
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