She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Agree. Flipping it around and making her defensive is always fun. :yes:Jitterbug said:Whatever you say, the key is to realise that it's projection, and nothing irritates her more than 1- it doesn't affect you and 2- you know it's actually about her.
I'd simply ask back: "Does that bother you? Dying single and lonely?"
Oh this is beauuuuuutiful.Jitterbug said:Whatever you say, the key is to realise that it's projection, and nothing irritates her more than 1- it doesn't affect you and 2- you know it's actually about her.
I'd simply ask back: "Does that bother you? Dying single and lonely?"
That's what Putin said to Amerikan media when they shamed him for not allowing anymore adoptions of Russian babies to the US. They shamed him saying, "...but Russia is Poor!"...Putin: "So what?"5string said:When women say this, just look at them and reply, so what?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
sadly this is how 99% of people live on EarthPoonani Maker said:That's what Putin said to Amerikan media when they shamed him for not allowing anymore adoptions of Russian babies to the US. They shamed him saying, "...but Russia is Poor!"...Putin: "So what?"
The reason he put in to place these restrictions was because our politicians/media were accusing Russia of "human rights 'violations'."
All these fvckin Americans, it's a disease, whereby Everybody has to IMPOSE their agenda on others. This is called Imperialism, and is what the Constitution was written/signed on to by 13 states, to guard against: Imperialism, or getting into other nations' business. Imperialism, as a mindset, has run amok in our country, it's a sick psychology to own and spread day in and day out in your life, because when you try to impose a set of rules, ideas, words, or doctrine, principles on to another person, you are essentially leaving out the words: "In my opinion" "THIS...you must do...for your own good."
No! in YOUR opinion, I must do this or that. If we lived by a set of WORDS our whole lives we'd not be even human, just a false vapid, soulless, Mindless, carcass of somebody else's ideals.
I like this.5string said:When women say this, just look at them and reply, so what?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Better to be alone than in your company.PlayHer Man said:This is probably the TOP "shaming tactic" women use when a man refuses to bend to her will. Telling him: "he will die single and lonely".
I'm wondering what some of your best "comebacks" are to this attack? For me.. I like to say:
"Women like you make that option very attractive". :crackup:
But I'd like to hear some other great comebacks....
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The man usually dies first, but if they've had a rich life, a woman will die surrounded by her children. I think they find that acceptable.Scaramouche said:They seem to be missing the obvious,that simple Maths will show in any couple one is going to die lonely!
Too bad, Sam. Looks like you've been friendzoned :cuss:samspade said:She kept telling me how sweet I was for helping her.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.