"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When women say "maybe"

thevilittletroll

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in your case i think that her "maybe" meant no. she didnt want to hurt your feelings. remember most women are never direct. thats why most women give out their phone numbers with no intentions of dating the guy. when you said to her its a yes or no and she got pissed, you were being needy and desperate. you placed too much of value on the answer to the invitation. its an unattractive quality. how would you react if you already had 10 hot girls that you already invited to this event said yes. would you care if this one girl says maybe or even no? this is mentality you need to have. think as if i have an abundance of women/options mentality when asking a girl on a date or her phone number. this will eliminate you reaction seeking behavior.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dominance

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It's hard to know, you have to judge it at the time.

Someone told me something once that makes alot of sense and is so true.

"With women maybe means yes, maybe means no, maybe means maybe, maybe means I don't know".

Sometimes it can just be flirting, but yes it can also be they are too insecure to just say no.
 
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