"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When women say "maybe"

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in your case i think that her "maybe" meant no. she didnt want to hurt your feelings. remember most women are never direct. thats why most women give out their phone numbers with no intentions of dating the guy. when you said to her its a yes or no and she got pissed, you were being needy and desperate. you placed too much of value on the answer to the invitation. its an unattractive quality. how would you react if you already had 10 hot girls that you already invited to this event said yes. would you care if this one girl says maybe or even no? this is mentality you need to have. think as if i have an abundance of women/options mentality when asking a girl on a date or her phone number. this will eliminate you reaction seeking behavior.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's hard to know, you have to judge it at the time.

Someone told me something once that makes alot of sense and is so true.

"With women maybe means yes, maybe means no, maybe means maybe, maybe means I don't know".

Sometimes it can just be flirting, but yes it can also be they are too insecure to just say no.
 
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