Doc Kas
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For a bit of fun it doesn't matter. Enjoy the body and then move on.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
When will you guys realize that LOOKS are almost all that matters!?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
wifehunter
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Nah, not looking for a slut.
zekko
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Agreed, slvts are common.
zekko
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Some women are turned off by a guy who uses product in his hair. There is a perception that guys should not spend time on their hair, that's a feminine thing. (Product isn't Aquanet, but same principle applies). They think men should wash their hair and go, and should be concerned with masculine things, not primping their hair in the mirror like a woman. Women are about beauty, men are about action.
On the other hand, some girls really like guys with product in their hair, especially the spiked look. So go figure.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Mike32ct
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When I had full hair, I got a lot of mileage out of either a messy gelled look or more often by spiking up the front (using gel or wax).
The stereotypical soap star Chad has the front of his hair spiked up. If a white dude has the hair to rock that look, it works well.
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Haven't noticed this thread. but I'll throw my opinion in here.
Looks are not totally insignificant, but it's pointless to focus on it and let it hold us back. A good looking guy with good game will of course have a better chance than a not so good looking guy with the same level of game. However, a not so good looking guy with great game is miles ahead of a guy with similar looks but with bad or no game. It's not a whole lot we can do about our looks (without surgery, but fuck that), so even worrying about it is useless and that energy is better spent changing what can be changed regarding game.
My spiked hairstyle goes really well with my looks just like being bald goes well with a different type of looks. I don't think being bald would fit me and I know for sure many others would not fit my hairstyle.
Looks are not totally insignificant, but it's pointless to focus on it and let it hold us back. A good looking guy with good game will of course have a better chance than a not so good looking guy with the same level of game. However, a not so good looking guy with great game is miles ahead of a guy with similar looks but with bad or no game. It's not a whole lot we can do about our looks (without surgery, but fuck that), so even worrying about it is useless and that energy is better spent changing what can be changed regarding game.
I often use products to give a spiky sideways look, my hair is really flat without using it. I'm sure some women don't like it and I believe age is relevant here. I'm in my 20's and I don't think most women mind it then, but for men twice my age it can pretty easily look weird. If any woman doesn't like my hair because she has the opinion that it's a feminine thing, then she's probably a lot more philosophical than I'd prefer anyways. I can understand if some don't like it because they'd like to touch my hair without getting sticky, that's at least a pragmatic reason which is fair enough. I really don't care if someone thinks it's feminine, I simply cannot be swayed by social constructs like that.
My spiked hairstyle goes really well with my looks just like being bald goes well with a different type of looks. I don't think being bald would fit me and I know for sure many others would not fit my hairstyle.
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Totally not true
Back before i had game when i had low self esteem etc i got ZERO girls
after developing myself for a while i was getting girls i would have NEVER thought i could get before.
It's mindest
"looks is all that matters" is an excuse that cowards use who don't want to look at themselves and realize what they need to work on.
Back before i had game when i had low self esteem etc i got ZERO girls
after developing myself for a while i was getting girls i would have NEVER thought i could get before.
It's mindest
"looks is all that matters" is an excuse that cowards use who don't want to look at themselves and realize what they need to work on.
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AJ84
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Because it's easier to place blame and accountability than make an effort to change. I used to work with a girl who was very overweight and this was around the time that the body acceptance movement began. She embraced that of course but seemed to think that by doing that, men were expected to embrace it as well(?). Well when that didn't happen guess whose fault it was? Not hers of course :/.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
If I went to see Pamela Anderson at a comic-con like i nearly did, I figured if I was more attractive, there would be much more physical touching in the picture than the coy smile that would result. 
Putting aside the women subject, it's tough out there. The hardest thing I have learned is that I am merely a drone and recepticle. 10+ years being bullied, teased and picked on, now I am asked to put something back into society by working and have random strangers asking me for change. What's going on?
Putting aside the women subject, it's tough out there. The hardest thing I have learned is that I am merely a drone and recepticle. 10+ years being bullied, teased and picked on, now I am asked to put something back into society by working and have random strangers asking me for change. What's going on?
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