"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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when & when not to compliment

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sinnerman

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so whens a good time to compliment a gal. i usually bust their balls but once in a while give a compliment like ''loved the way you've done your hair'' or ''you smell good today''

should you compliment only if u receive a compliment from them earlier or is showing your attraction for her a good idea. also is it a good idea not compliment the 8's and 9's who get a million compliments everyday and bust their balls more while complimenting a 6's and 7's will trigger attraction in her as they dont receive it that often.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PapiChulo

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Even 6s and 7s receive a bunch compliments. You compliment when you feel like to. A compliment should also be earned, it should be sincere. Use your observational skills to pick something that others haven't noticed, or did but never though it would matter. And finally, use it sparingly! I do tell 6s and 7s that they are cute, because I actually find them cute and they may not be getting this from too many guys. I still lightly tease them and throw an occasional compliment- it makes you look credible imho.
 
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any chick could get a compliment if a dude thinks he can get her. i dont give them one until i get one. why give them HV when every other dude is doing the same. i dont give them just to give them. they should earn it.
 
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