"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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when & when not to compliment

sinnerman

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so whens a good time to compliment a gal. i usually bust their balls but once in a while give a compliment like ''loved the way you've done your hair'' or ''you smell good today''

should you compliment only if u receive a compliment from them earlier or is showing your attraction for her a good idea. also is it a good idea not compliment the 8's and 9's who get a million compliments everyday and bust their balls more while complimenting a 6's and 7's will trigger attraction in her as they dont receive it that often.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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PapiChulo

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Even 6s and 7s receive a bunch compliments. You compliment when you feel like to. A compliment should also be earned, it should be sincere. Use your observational skills to pick something that others haven't noticed, or did but never though it would matter. And finally, use it sparingly! I do tell 6s and 7s that they are cute, because I actually find them cute and they may not be getting this from too many guys. I still lightly tease them and throw an occasional compliment- it makes you look credible imho.
 

goldengoose

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any chick could get a compliment if a dude thinks he can get her. i dont give them one until i get one. why give them HV when every other dude is doing the same. i dont give them just to give them. they should earn it.
 
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