Mercury21
Don Juan
I don't even know where to begin. I don't know what to think, or even how to approach the situation.
That is why I am hoping to get some input from you guys...some of your own stories and opinions to see if I can shed some light on my scenario.
Is it possible for no logical reaon at all for us men to simply lose interest in a great girl that we are in a great relationship with??
I am not sure, but I believe that may be happening to me right now. For the past 7 months I have been in a great-GREAT- relationship with an outstanding girl.
Seriously, aside from being good looking and hot, she has the best personality you would expect from a girl. She is a virgin-this I confirmed for myself - she has never had very many boyfriends, only 2 and the most it ever lasted was 1 month!
Her and I have the greatest time together, and we talk about everything. We didn't in the beginning of course, but now we have reached that level.
And best of all is that she is crazy for me. Thanks in part to the skills have learned here at sosuave, and in part to who I am she has fallen head over heels for me. She always says she loves me, and has even proclaimed recently that this has been the best 7 months of her life! Sounds like everything is great, right?
So why in the hell do I suddenly feel like it just isn't worth it anymore?? It doesn't make any sense to me at all. All of a sudden her little "cute" quirks annoy me more and more. Little relationship bumps that I could deal with before now make me want to just throw my hands up in the air and scream that I am done with it all!
And here is the worst part. I think-THINK- that maybe these feelings are reflecting my mood around her. All in all I am still the same guy. But sometimes I catch myself not really talking to her anymore. Other times I realize that I don't crack as many jokes when we are together like I used to.
I am afraid that maybe my mood is affecting her to. Although she is still very much in love with me and proclaims it everyday, I have been getting a different vibe from her lately. A vibe like she just doesn't have that enthusiasm to be with me as much anymore.
Maybe it has nothing to do with me, as she is going through her own issues right now, like her grandmother having cancer. But it just pisses me off how sometimes she will not make the effort to see me anymore, or come over to my place, or even call me throughout the day like she used to.
I'm getting better at not letting my mood be affected by her, or any woman for that matter. My emotional control has been the only area of my game that has always needed work. I am getting better, but it still pisses me off to no end when lately she just simply does not call me when she knows for a fact that I am not doing anything work or school related...in other words when there is the possiblilty for her and I to get together.
But anyway, I still don't know why all of a sudden I began feeling this way. Its not like we are both young and immature. I will be graduating airline pilot academy in 1 year and University in another year. She is on her way to becoming a nurse around the same time. I have always mentioned how I will be moving to Florida after graduation, and now she talks about how she will to.
Everything just confuses the hell out of me...so I need some input from everybody on all of this. Let me know what you guys think, and how I should approach all of this...and also give me your opinions and stories about similar situations.
Thanks guys!
That is why I am hoping to get some input from you guys...some of your own stories and opinions to see if I can shed some light on my scenario.
Is it possible for no logical reaon at all for us men to simply lose interest in a great girl that we are in a great relationship with??
I am not sure, but I believe that may be happening to me right now. For the past 7 months I have been in a great-GREAT- relationship with an outstanding girl.
Seriously, aside from being good looking and hot, she has the best personality you would expect from a girl. She is a virgin-this I confirmed for myself - she has never had very many boyfriends, only 2 and the most it ever lasted was 1 month!
Her and I have the greatest time together, and we talk about everything. We didn't in the beginning of course, but now we have reached that level.
And best of all is that she is crazy for me. Thanks in part to the skills have learned here at sosuave, and in part to who I am she has fallen head over heels for me. She always says she loves me, and has even proclaimed recently that this has been the best 7 months of her life! Sounds like everything is great, right?
So why in the hell do I suddenly feel like it just isn't worth it anymore?? It doesn't make any sense to me at all. All of a sudden her little "cute" quirks annoy me more and more. Little relationship bumps that I could deal with before now make me want to just throw my hands up in the air and scream that I am done with it all!
And here is the worst part. I think-THINK- that maybe these feelings are reflecting my mood around her. All in all I am still the same guy. But sometimes I catch myself not really talking to her anymore. Other times I realize that I don't crack as many jokes when we are together like I used to.
I am afraid that maybe my mood is affecting her to. Although she is still very much in love with me and proclaims it everyday, I have been getting a different vibe from her lately. A vibe like she just doesn't have that enthusiasm to be with me as much anymore.
Maybe it has nothing to do with me, as she is going through her own issues right now, like her grandmother having cancer. But it just pisses me off how sometimes she will not make the effort to see me anymore, or come over to my place, or even call me throughout the day like she used to.
I'm getting better at not letting my mood be affected by her, or any woman for that matter. My emotional control has been the only area of my game that has always needed work. I am getting better, but it still pisses me off to no end when lately she just simply does not call me when she knows for a fact that I am not doing anything work or school related...in other words when there is the possiblilty for her and I to get together.
But anyway, I still don't know why all of a sudden I began feeling this way. Its not like we are both young and immature. I will be graduating airline pilot academy in 1 year and University in another year. She is on her way to becoming a nurse around the same time. I have always mentioned how I will be moving to Florida after graduation, and now she talks about how she will to.
Everything just confuses the hell out of me...so I need some input from everybody on all of this. Let me know what you guys think, and how I should approach all of this...and also give me your opinions and stories about similar situations.
Thanks guys!