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When to use my magic talent in my DJ lifestyle?

void957

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Ok so im a magician, i can blow your mind like Derren Brown, I'm Derren Brown to some people and to others Im Dynamo. But thats not the point, i can make friends with anyone simply by reading their mind, i have done it in my first year of college, did i get a single girl? nope, neither did i know about the DJ lifestyle, which explains why i never escalated or got their numbers. I did get very famous around college, people all around college always asked me to perform for them and their friends, but i still never got any girls. However, i imroved my approach anxiety because i would ALWAYS approach different girls , even GROUPs and impress the **** out of them but never thought of using it in a good way, because i felt like they only liked me for my tricks and mind reading abilities and never for my true personality

This year however ive stopped doing tricks to every person i meet, or even generally u would always see me with cards or impressing someone at lunch. I have now realised that i want people to like me for my personality, so i almost completely stopped , only occasionally rocking a mind reading trick(not n00b tricks, im talking about some psychic **** here haha , im not psychic by any means, i only use trickery to create that image). But i have read in many places that girls like guys that make them laugh, my tricks made them laugh but did i get the sex? no, so thats why i want to find a way to integrate this skill to make my DJ lifestyle a better one, so they do not just like me for me magic but rather its my personality with my magic as a BONUS.

I was thinking on my first date pull off a very quick trick where i guess the card they think of(no b.s its exactly the way it sounds, u think of a card and i tell you, no bs), which is my signature move. And FROM NOW, i tell them that i get a kiss if i get it right, and nothing if i get it wrong (lol bc i will always get it right.)



Tell me what you guys think, do u think i should save this for the REAL girl, or keep it for the 2nd or 3rd date? or dyu STILL think i should approach with my magic tricks even though they will only like me for that rather than my personality?


thanks for reading if you got this far!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TheGambino

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Cut the tricks out, approach ask questions, have fun and ask for her number to arrange a date. that's it, if she doesn't like it next her, try another girl. Use your talent at the poker tables and earn some cash instead if youre so good.
 

marmel75

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Get some granny panties and while talking to a woman tell her you bet you can tell the type of panties she is wearing without looking...then do your trick and pull out the granny panties and say "wow...that is sooooo unattractive...and to think you had potential..." And give her a smirk...she will probably crack up laughing and smack you playfully
 
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