I cold approached a cute girl 2 days ago, made her laugh and had a good conversation and ended up getting her number. I texted her back and forth later that day but she didn't text me back after a couple texts. When should I text her again? I told her we are going to hang out, she said ok but then the text conversation fizzled out. Also what should I text her and how should I set things up?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
When to text girl?
- Thread starter Fighter95
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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What did you text her about?Fighter95 said:
Text her when you want to see her.Fighter95 said:
Choose a casual place to hang out.
Tell her it ISN'T a date.
Seeing as you broke the dreaded 3 day rule and she stopped responding to your texts, id say you are losing this one quickly. At this point, i would wait a few days then drop a casual "hey whats up you around later for a drink" type deal.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.