I cold approached a cute girl 2 days ago, made her laugh and had a good conversation and ended up getting her number. I texted her back and forth later that day but she didn't text me back after a couple texts. When should I text her again? I told her we are going to hang out, she said ok but then the text conversation fizzled out. Also what should I text her and how should I set things up?
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When to text girl?
- Thread starter Fighter95
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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What did you text her about?Fighter95 said:
Text her when you want to see her.Fighter95 said:
Choose a casual place to hang out.
Tell her it ISN'T a date.
Seeing as you broke the dreaded 3 day rule and she stopped responding to your texts, id say you are losing this one quickly. At this point, i would wait a few days then drop a casual "hey whats up you around later for a drink" type deal.
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