"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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when to stop making a girl jealous?

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tony-montana

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so we both like each other.. but sometimes she talks about me and other girls. like for example today we were joking about excercise and i said, sex is good for that and ill get abs in no time. so she said "looks like you will be having lots of girls over.. you're such a slut!" so i change the subject and ask her what she's up to and if she's had any sleep. she totally ignored it and again, she asks: "so whats this obsession that you have with sex?" and im thinking wtf??? i try to avoid it again and say what are you talking about? so hows your day been.

she's done it a few times. like saying things that if we end up being together all the other girls will be upset about it. is she jealous or what!? sometimes she even asks me how often do i have sex. how do i answer that!? should i tell just keep her hangin on to these things thinking im fuking other girls? or will that push her away?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sorry i really want to help but i cant understand what you just wrote.
 
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Never, or until you get married (which should be never).

This is perfect man. There is no higher attraction maintainer than her believing you have other things going on.
 
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hmm really? i know most women like it when they see other girls chasing you but what about the nice girls that aren't b1tches and sluts? i know girls you meet at bars and nightclubs (the slutty type) get off on this stuff... but what about the real ones that have a nice heart. that would show them ur a player and get turn off??? or am i dreaming?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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