"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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when to stop making a girl jealous?

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tony-montana

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so we both like each other.. but sometimes she talks about me and other girls. like for example today we were joking about excercise and i said, sex is good for that and ill get abs in no time. so she said "looks like you will be having lots of girls over.. you're such a slut!" so i change the subject and ask her what she's up to and if she's had any sleep. she totally ignored it and again, she asks: "so whats this obsession that you have with sex?" and im thinking wtf??? i try to avoid it again and say what are you talking about? so hows your day been.

she's done it a few times. like saying things that if we end up being together all the other girls will be upset about it. is she jealous or what!? sometimes she even asks me how often do i have sex. how do i answer that!? should i tell just keep her hangin on to these things thinking im fuking other girls? or will that push her away?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sorry i really want to help but i cant understand what you just wrote.
 
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Never, or until you get married (which should be never).

This is perfect man. There is no higher attraction maintainer than her believing you have other things going on.
 
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hmm really? i know most women like it when they see other girls chasing you but what about the nice girls that aren't b1tches and sluts? i know girls you meet at bars and nightclubs (the slutty type) get off on this stuff... but what about the real ones that have a nice heart. that would show them ur a player and get turn off??? or am i dreaming?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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