"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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When to Stop Dating Other People?

SolidGold

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Hey all,

So here's the thing. I've been dating this girl for almost 2 months now and she's totally into me to the point that she's eager to turn "what we have" into a relationship.

Even though I like the girl and I can see what we have moving forward in the future, I'm not into the relationship thing very much and I don't know her THAT well to the point to make the "transaction" at the moment. And in addiction to this, I'm still dating other girls.

Do you think I'm doing right at dating other people? When should I start being exclusive?

thanks for the input ;)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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pdx1138

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For this only you can pick the right answer.

Do what YOU are comfortable with.
 

betheman

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troll
 

frisco

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six months or up to a year, most relationships fizzle by then anyways.
 
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