"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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When to Stop Dating Other People?

SolidGold

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Hey all,

So here's the thing. I've been dating this girl for almost 2 months now and she's totally into me to the point that she's eager to turn "what we have" into a relationship.

Even though I like the girl and I can see what we have moving forward in the future, I'm not into the relationship thing very much and I don't know her THAT well to the point to make the "transaction" at the moment. And in addiction to this, I'm still dating other girls.

Do you think I'm doing right at dating other people? When should I start being exclusive?

thanks for the input ;)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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pdx1138

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For this only you can pick the right answer.

Do what YOU are comfortable with.
 

betheman

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troll
 

frisco

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six months or up to a year, most relationships fizzle by then anyways.
 
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