"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When to Stop Dating Other People?

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SolidGold

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Hey all,

So here's the thing. I've been dating this girl for almost 2 months now and she's totally into me to the point that she's eager to turn "what we have" into a relationship.

Even though I like the girl and I can see what we have moving forward in the future, I'm not into the relationship thing very much and I don't know her THAT well to the point to make the "transaction" at the moment. And in addiction to this, I'm still dating other girls.

Do you think I'm doing right at dating other people? When should I start being exclusive?

thanks for the input ;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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pdx1138

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For this only you can pick the right answer.

Do what YOU are comfortable with.
 
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betheman

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troll
 
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six months or up to a year, most relationships fizzle by then anyways.
 
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