"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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pete101

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yes i take what you're saying.. i've already made so many grevious errors than when she takes an overview she'll see what you're saying.

let's assume she does meet me tomorrow which im pretty sure now she will but i will apologise and say you were right if she doesn't.. how should i be apart from the basics of C+f, neg-hits, kino etc?

cos these things are all i seem to know and dont have much else knowledge how to prize myself or be a challenge.. i've obviously failed the 'challenge' part with my errors so if i want to achieve what i want from tomorrow i better start doing as you guys say..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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