when to send a confirmation msg

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

pete101

Master Don Juan

Mar 18, 2008

yes i take what you're saying.. i've already made so many grevious errors than when she takes an overview she'll see what you're saying.

let's assume she does meet me tomorrow which im pretty sure now she will but i will apologise and say you were right if she doesn't.. how should i be apart from the basics of C+f, neg-hits, kino etc?

cos these things are all i seem to know and dont have much else knowledge how to prize myself or be a challenge.. i've obviously failed the 'challenge' part with my errors so if i want to achieve what i want from tomorrow i better start doing as you guys say..

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.