"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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When to quit

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Reading through all the articles here I came to realise today that one of the most important things I take from this site is knowing when to quit. Knowing exactly what makes a woman not right to keep pursuing. It is also said here that persistance is key. So it can be a little confusing at times when to stop. Reading through here has given me much insight into this... Thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SgtSplacker said:
Reading through all the articles here I came to realise today that one of the most important things I take from this site is knowing when to quit. Knowing exactly what makes a woman not right to keep pursuing. It is also said here that persistance is key. So it can be a little confusing at times when to stop. Reading through here has given me much insight into this... Thanks

I don't know what information you're referring to specifically, so I'll ask you a question:

Do you see the difference between knowing when to quit with an individual female, and being persistent about reaching your goals in life/dating/manhood?

I don't think anyone would tell you to persistently pursue a woman who has rejected you. Any mentions of persistence seem to be referring to not quitting on yourself. Quitting on some random chick is just fine. There are plenty more of those. There's only one you.
 

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My goals I will never give up on, I know what I want and I will die trying to reach them. What I was talking about was individual women. From what I can gather the decision to drop a woman must come from whether she is something you really want and based on her level of interest in you. Before I kinda had an accept all women mentality that just kinda drove me nuts. Kinda like a scavenger mentality thing going. I dunno if thats the right way to explain it. I've just been taught to reject what I don't want more readily.
 

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Good for you, this should apply to every minuteste part of your life. This might be a good place to suggest reading "The virtues of selfishness" by Ayn Rand. If there is a true manual, thats it right there. You can find a pdf. Pretty easily online.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She can be a little dry of a read, but well worth it. Her whole philosophy is based on reason, ego, principals and values. Yours. She is the anti thesis of all weak feminist thought, and encourages the heroic in man. To follow reason and be a benevolent egotist, with the highest value your productive principals is the natural state of a man, and the only way to honor your existance.
 
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