"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When to kiss

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ok i've been "with" (as exclusive as you can be while in highschool) a girl for about a month but I haven't been able to kiss her more than a closed-mouthed grandma kiss yet because of lack of time in places that are ok to kiss at together. My school of thought is that once I do the first one,(makeout session) I'll be able to spot the right scenarios easier. So i'm asking for advice about where all you dj's out there pulled off the first "big deal" kiss.
P.S. Im young in case you can't tell....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Basically anywhere thats private. Take her to a basement/livingroom/car or whatever where you know you two wont be disturbed. Make some light conversation then at the first pause look into her eye's and then move in slowly. Take the lead and don't be afraid, it's not as big a deal as you might be thinking.
 

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Go to a club, dance with her, drink a little just have an overall good time and then sit and talk a little, just don't really think about when is the "right time" i think you'll just know, i believe a girls face can tell when she is ready to be kissed, whatever you do don't try to think about it just FEEL the moment. :)
 

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Basically if I were you I'd walk up to her the next time I saw her and kiss her immediately because first of all she wants you to but you're the man so don't wait around on her quit showing her you're just a boy and can't step up and second of all there is no right moment get that preconcieved notion outta your head that sparks will fly and angels will sing, truth is we as people make perfect situations, they aren't handed to us. Step up and grab your ball sack and everything will be right with the world.
 

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I've only grandma kissed a girl once or twice, and that was in between classes. Any other time it turned into a makeout session...

One time was at a dance, another after a play as I was walking her to her car. You'll know when you should do it. Better to be alone as well.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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