"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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When to kiss

(JJ)

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ok i've been "with" (as exclusive as you can be while in highschool) a girl for about a month but I haven't been able to kiss her more than a closed-mouthed grandma kiss yet because of lack of time in places that are ok to kiss at together. My school of thought is that once I do the first one,(makeout session) I'll be able to spot the right scenarios easier. So i'm asking for advice about where all you dj's out there pulled off the first "big deal" kiss.
P.S. Im young in case you can't tell....
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Basically anywhere thats private. Take her to a basement/livingroom/car or whatever where you know you two wont be disturbed. Make some light conversation then at the first pause look into her eye's and then move in slowly. Take the lead and don't be afraid, it's not as big a deal as you might be thinking.
 

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Go to a club, dance with her, drink a little just have an overall good time and then sit and talk a little, just don't really think about when is the "right time" i think you'll just know, i believe a girls face can tell when she is ready to be kissed, whatever you do don't try to think about it just FEEL the moment. :)
 

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Basically if I were you I'd walk up to her the next time I saw her and kiss her immediately because first of all she wants you to but you're the man so don't wait around on her quit showing her you're just a boy and can't step up and second of all there is no right moment get that preconcieved notion outta your head that sparks will fly and angels will sing, truth is we as people make perfect situations, they aren't handed to us. Step up and grab your ball sack and everything will be right with the world.
 

The Shocker

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I've only grandma kissed a girl once or twice, and that was in between classes. Any other time it turned into a makeout session...

One time was at a dance, another after a play as I was walking her to her car. You'll know when you should do it. Better to be alone as well.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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