"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When to Kiss her

xv2000

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Alright so I posted about this girl before, and her interest level's gone way up so that's great but I have a question here.

So we have a date in two days and I was teasing her on the phone tonight about her being shy by saying how talkative she was and how she was gonna get us kicked out. Long story short, the conversation ended with me saying kissing her would probably shut her up, but I probably would kiss her when she wont expect it. She was very into the idea, but I made sure to leave it very ambiguous as to when I would do it. I know it was kind of stupid to have a conversation about kissing when she wasn't even with me, but I didn't want to pass up the opportunity.

So my question is, what's a clever way to make a kiss unexpected/do you guys have any stories of how you got girls wrapped around your finger waiting for a kiss?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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NorwegianDJ

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Never really done that. I prefer to go the safe way, as the kiss pretty much seals the deal. Kino is your way to go if you want her all over you.
 

foomee

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so when things feel pretty hot and just blabbing on about something. do the whole "shut up" thing and put your finger to her lips. then while staring at her very deeply into her eyes, kiss her. ya it's a typical romance movie thing, but it could work.

i'm actually gonna try this with a girl tonight or tomorrow. i hope soon.
 

Jmac21

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Whatever you do don't wait for the "perfect moment" your the one who creates it. Don't plan it unless you have a brilliant idea dude. What I do is I just go with the flow and then when I just look at her and we keep that eye contact I get that gut feeling that this is when I should make my move and I do. If you need advice on kissing or making-out I tried to give some advice on another post named "Sealed the deal......." hopefully this post helped and the other one does too if you read it.
 
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