Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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When to Kiss her

xv2000

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Alright so I posted about this girl before, and her interest level's gone way up so that's great but I have a question here.

So we have a date in two days and I was teasing her on the phone tonight about her being shy by saying how talkative she was and how she was gonna get us kicked out. Long story short, the conversation ended with me saying kissing her would probably shut her up, but I probably would kiss her when she wont expect it. She was very into the idea, but I made sure to leave it very ambiguous as to when I would do it. I know it was kind of stupid to have a conversation about kissing when she wasn't even with me, but I didn't want to pass up the opportunity.

So my question is, what's a clever way to make a kiss unexpected/do you guys have any stories of how you got girls wrapped around your finger waiting for a kiss?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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NorwegianDJ

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Never really done that. I prefer to go the safe way, as the kiss pretty much seals the deal. Kino is your way to go if you want her all over you.
 

foomee

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so when things feel pretty hot and just blabbing on about something. do the whole "shut up" thing and put your finger to her lips. then while staring at her very deeply into her eyes, kiss her. ya it's a typical romance movie thing, but it could work.

i'm actually gonna try this with a girl tonight or tomorrow. i hope soon.
 

Jmac21

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Whatever you do don't wait for the "perfect moment" your the one who creates it. Don't plan it unless you have a brilliant idea dude. What I do is I just go with the flow and then when I just look at her and we keep that eye contact I get that gut feeling that this is when I should make my move and I do. If you need advice on kissing or making-out I tried to give some advice on another post named "Sealed the deal......." hopefully this post helped and the other one does too if you read it.
 
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