“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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when to go with the flow

Zerotwoonenine

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hey guys, i'll save your time by going straight to the point.
Before you date a girl, hell, analyse the hell out of her as we good djs do(cause we no so much), constantly pull dj moves on her, take complete control, exert your power over her and stuff.
But have u guys ever seen the movie hitch??
i think u cant keep djing the girl after a few month into your date, you have to start letting her to get to know you alittle, cause if you keep remaining a mystery, she wont feel attached to you and will break up cause she thinks she dont even know you.
Last month i said to my girl:"do you think i am complicated?", she said:"yea", so i said:"do you think you will ever get to know me?", she said:"no i dont think ever:", now i secretly grinned to my self cause i know that with first month of dating you should remain a mystery. Then i gradually opened up to her and let her into my world, now dont get me wrong i did it dj way. She sent me a text:" maybe u r not as complicated as i thought and maybe i am not as simple as u though."
Our relationship moved on alot from that point.
In the end of the day, if u want a intimate relationship with a girl, u have to open up to her, other wise she will leave. You cant let her do all the chasing as well, you have to put in some effort as well. Yes girls get attracted to mystery and Djing, but if u r a good dj u will know when to ease down alittle and let her to get to know the real u, the u who is a dj, but who is also a guy.:yes:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rastaman

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You have a point here but it may mislead the newbie, I generally won't change the winning formula.
 

Zerotwoonenine

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still man if u r the dj, then u know that you should be yourself sometimes.
 

Rastaman

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I'm not saying you should be on "stage/acting" always. What i'm saying is the "average be yourself" fails 90% of the time when it comes to girls. I'm cultivating a "changed man" and that who i'll be...
I don't lie to girls, but i won't give them the tools to bring me down either.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Fortunate_Juan

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JBY? Be who you want to be.
 
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