"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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when to go with the flow

Zerotwoonenine

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hey guys, i'll save your time by going straight to the point.
Before you date a girl, hell, analyse the hell out of her as we good djs do(cause we no so much), constantly pull dj moves on her, take complete control, exert your power over her and stuff.
But have u guys ever seen the movie hitch??
i think u cant keep djing the girl after a few month into your date, you have to start letting her to get to know you alittle, cause if you keep remaining a mystery, she wont feel attached to you and will break up cause she thinks she dont even know you.
Last month i said to my girl:"do you think i am complicated?", she said:"yea", so i said:"do you think you will ever get to know me?", she said:"no i dont think ever:", now i secretly grinned to my self cause i know that with first month of dating you should remain a mystery. Then i gradually opened up to her and let her into my world, now dont get me wrong i did it dj way. She sent me a text:" maybe u r not as complicated as i thought and maybe i am not as simple as u though."
Our relationship moved on alot from that point.
In the end of the day, if u want a intimate relationship with a girl, u have to open up to her, other wise she will leave. You cant let her do all the chasing as well, you have to put in some effort as well. Yes girls get attracted to mystery and Djing, but if u r a good dj u will know when to ease down alittle and let her to get to know the real u, the u who is a dj, but who is also a guy.:yes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Rastaman

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You have a point here but it may mislead the newbie, I generally won't change the winning formula.
 

Zerotwoonenine

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still man if u r the dj, then u know that you should be yourself sometimes.
 

Rastaman

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I'm not saying you should be on "stage/acting" always. What i'm saying is the "average be yourself" fails 90% of the time when it comes to girls. I'm cultivating a "changed man" and that who i'll be...
I don't lie to girls, but i won't give them the tools to bring me down either.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fortunate_Juan

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JBY? Be who you want to be.
 
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