"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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just started talking to a new girl at the bus stop. At first I offered up some eye contact/smiling and then she opened idle conversation which I flittered in and out of with some indifference. Though she primarily seemed interested in my career and telling me how she'd love a creative job. Not sure if she was spotting me for information on recruitment rather than personal interest?!

Anyway she just started working in the same business park as me and said "so what do you do for lunch around here?" I gave her a list of the local eateries.. but after i said that, I sensed that maybe I should have offered an invite to join me somewhere?

Do you guys think that was a signal? coz she never even relinquished her name.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Um sounds like damn obvious signal to me lol, she wanted you to ask her out to lunch. Stay frosty next time man :D women are always giving off signals, you need to watch for them.

How did you let her walk away without at least getting her number? She can't have been that hot or interesting i think, either that or you're seriously lacking in confidence bro. No biggie just learn from it and don't be afraid of rejection.
 
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damn it groover.. you've ruined my day lol

Its safe tho, i'll see her again since she works nearby. I think you're right about the confidence thing though man, i just need to grabs my balls and go for it next time!
 
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