When to go for the kill?..

[Spawn_Xe]

just started talking to a new girl at the bus stop. At first I offered up some eye contact/smiling and then she opened idle conversation which I flittered in and out of with some indifference. Though she primarily seemed interested in my career and telling me how she'd love a creative job. Not sure if she was spotting me for information on recruitment rather than personal interest?!

Anyway she just started working in the same business park as me and said "so what do you do for lunch around here?" I gave her a list of the local eateries.. but after i said that, I sensed that maybe I should have offered an invite to join me somewhere?

Do you guys think that was a signal? coz she never even relinquished her name.

 

[Gro0ver]

Um sounds like damn obvious signal to me lol, she wanted you to ask her out to lunch. Stay frosty next time man women are always giving off signals, you need to watch for them.

How did you let her walk away without at least getting her number? She can't have been that hot or interesting i think, either that or you're seriously lacking in confidence bro. No biggie just learn from it and don't be afraid of rejection.

 

[Spawn_Xe]

damn it groover.. you've ruined my day lol

Its safe tho, i'll see her again since she works nearby. I think you're right about the confidence thing though man, i just need to grabs my balls and go for it next time!