When to escalate verbally

[EyeBRollin]

What do you do if she rejects such an attempt?

Depends on the “rejection.”

1) If she turns away the kiss, but continues the date it means: “Not yet. Try again in a bit.”

2) If she turns away the kiss and the mood abruptly changes to defensiveness and anger, the date is over and you can just leave.

Scenario 1 is more common.

 

[RazorRambo24]

You gotta work on your social etiquette first before thinking about escalating.. You really just weirded her out right away..

A girl just str8 up ditched u mid convo -ouch let that be a lesson for you man.

#1 Thing when approaching any girl is you have to prove to her you're not a weirdo or creep <-- you failed this step

The big mistake alot of amateurs make is they think you need to be overtly sexual right away because alot of idiots/douchebags tell them this.. Problem is alot of guys don't k now how to diffuse her alarm bells first, and then be flirtacious in a suave manner. The way you did it comes off as really weird... I mean seriously you guys were talking about politics or some sht then you started actin like a creep? what a weird segway.

Yes i get that she told you to walk with her ands aid shes flexible.. you started off flirting with her alright, then you started overly pushing a typical idea that alot of amateurs mention "50 shades of grey" like as if every chick fuccs with BD.SM, then she said somethin playful after tryin to tell u not all girls are into that-you took it weirdly serious and personal and basically asked her if she was damaged or some sht or if someone "roughed her up" as a child-- what a turn off lmao

 

[anour]

You gotta work on your social etiquette first before thinking about escalating.. You really just weirded her out right away..

A girl just str8 up ditched u mid convo -ouch let that be a lesson for you man.

#1 Thing when approaching any girl is you have to prove to her you're not a weirdo or creep <-- you failed this step

The big mistake alot of amateurs make is they think you need to be overtly sexual right away because alot of idiots/douchebags tell them this.. Problem is alot of guys don't k now how to diffuse her alarm bells first, and then be flirtacious in a suave manner. The way you did it comes off as really weird... I mean seriously you guys were talking about politics or some sht then you started actin like a creep? what a weird segway.

Yes i get that she told you to walk with her ands aid shes flexible.. you started off flirting with her alright, then you started overly pushing a typical idea that alot of amateurs mention "50 shades of grey" like as if every chick fuccs with BD.SM, then she said somethin playful after tryin to tell u not all girls are into that-you took it weirdly serious and personal and basically asked her if she was damaged or some sht or if someone "roughed her up" as a child-- what a turn off lmao

I agree with you on this. When do you think you should begin to escalate?
What are some things to refrain from doing to not be labelled as a creep?

 

[anour]

Depends on the “rejection.”

1) If she turns away the kiss, but continues the date it means: “Not yet. Try again in a bit.”

2) If she turns away the kiss and the mood abruptly changes to defensiveness and anger, the date is over and you can just leave.

Scenario 1 is more common.

When is a good time to try again, how should i approach trying to kiss her again after initial rejection?