"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When To End The Night

jdbman11

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Often on weekends when I come home alone, I find myself calling females throughout my phonebook. Perhaps it's due to intoxication, but what hour do you think is appropriate to cut off all late night calls?

I have been going all over the place recently and I believe it's putting a dent in my game.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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judoguy

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I wouldnt call anywhere between 1030 pm and 1 pm the next day.


Dont wanna look like a chump with no social life. You should be going out and getting rejected at this time anyway. Also in my personal experience... Never drunk dial to game a chick. Its not a turn on, you look like a desperate idiot and most likely wont be on top of your game.
 

amoka

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Certain things are mere common sense, which should be practiced as you age. To call or not call a girl in the mid of the night certainly does not require any DJ skills. If at 20 you don't know whether to call a girl at night or not, you may never know when to kiss a kiss a girl at 30.
 
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