"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When To End The Night

jdbman11

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Often on weekends when I come home alone, I find myself calling females throughout my phonebook. Perhaps it's due to intoxication, but what hour do you think is appropriate to cut off all late night calls?

I have been going all over the place recently and I believe it's putting a dent in my game.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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judoguy

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I wouldnt call anywhere between 1030 pm and 1 pm the next day.


Dont wanna look like a chump with no social life. You should be going out and getting rejected at this time anyway. Also in my personal experience... Never drunk dial to game a chick. Its not a turn on, you look like a desperate idiot and most likely wont be on top of your game.
 

amoka

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Certain things are mere common sense, which should be practiced as you age. To call or not call a girl in the mid of the night certainly does not require any DJ skills. If at 20 you don't know whether to call a girl at night or not, you may never know when to kiss a kiss a girl at 30.
 
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